Skip to main content

Featured

People I Didn’t Know I Needed

Hi cuties! I’m back with another blog post, and this one is purely an appreciation post for my friends. I honestly don’t know where to start, but I’ve never really had great friendships during my school years. So I didn’t truly understand what a good friendship felt like until 11th grade. After that, I found some of the best people I now get to call my friends, and I feel incredibly lucky to have them in my life. I have this one friend , and we actually hated each other in school. But after we left school, we realised we were in the same boat and could have easily been best friends back then. Better late than never, I guess, because now she is my best friend. I’ve known her for almost 10 years, so she’s not just a friend, she’s family. And I’m not exaggerating when I say I’ve lost my guest privilege at her house, and she’s lost hers in my life. With her, I say the most cancellable things. She judges me, but then says something even more cancellable, and we both laugh like idiots. Tha...
Post a Comment
Read more

Trust Issues Sponsored by Past Experiences

Hey cuties,

 

I'm back with another blog! Today, let’s talk about something I’m sure most of us deal with: trust issues. Honestly, at this point, trust issues feel more common than common sense.

 

It usually starts pretty early. Like when your sibling convinces you to buy a DairyMilk because "KitKat isn't that great," and then they go and buy a KitKat just to flex. Or when your mom says, "Tell me the truth, I won’t get mad," and then obviously gets mad the moment you confess. (Classic.)

 

School brings a special kind of betrayal. You’re vibing in a huge friend group, sharing tiffins and inside jokes, when suddenly five of them become an exclusive VIP club without you. (Where are you all now, though? Still ghosting people?) And that’s when trust issues are no longer just a theory; they’re your new reality.

 

By the time you reach college or uni, you’re standing there wondering, "Should I even trust anyone anymore?" But you still do. And somehow, every time, you’re reminded why you shouldn’t have.

 

And let’s not even get started on work life, when your boss says, "Let’s hop on a quick 5-minute call" on a Friday evening... and you already know it’s never just 5 minutes. (At this point, even clocks have trust issues.)

 

But despite all the trust issues we pick up along the way, we do grow. And somewhere, deep down, we still keep a little space in our hearts for the few people who’ve stayed trustworthy all these years.

And honestly, in the end, those people are what truly matter.

 

Thanks for reading! Comment below if you relate — I’m sure you do!

Comments

  1. AnonymousApril 29, 2025 at 1:25 AM

    Honestly, it's so true when most of time your trust breaks but you still have some faith for trust back. I love reading your blogs just becoz I feel each word relatable. 💙
    From your loved one, VANITA🫶🏻

    ReplyDelete

Post a Comment

Popular Posts