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Hi cuties! I’m back with another blog post, and this one is purely an appreciation post for my friends. I honestly don’t know where to start, but I’ve never really had great friendships during my school years. So I didn’t truly understand what a good friendship felt like until 11th grade. After that, I found some of the best people I now get to call my friends, and I feel incredibly lucky to have them in my life. I have this one friend , and we actually hated each other in school. But after we left school, we realised we were in the same boat and could have easily been best friends back then. Better late than never, I guess, because now she is my best friend. I’ve known her for almost 10 years, so she’s not just a friend, she’s family. And I’m not exaggerating when I say I’ve lost my guest privilege at her house, and she’s lost hers in my life. With her, I say the most cancellable things. She judges me, but then says something even more cancellable, and we both laugh like idiots. Tha...
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Adulting: Now Featuring Friendship Scheduling

Hey Cuties, 

Hope you’re all doing amazing. I’m back with a fresh blog, and today we’re diving into the highs and lows of keeping friendships alive in this busy adult life!

Adulthood is wild—I'm barely an adult, and honestly, I’m already in the "friendship problems" zone! Remember the good old days when you could just call or text your friends and they'd be down to meet in a heartbeat? We’d hang out, chill, and life was basically a vibe.

Now, if I want to catch up for 30 minutes, I’ve got to plan it like I’m coordinating a NASA launch. Everyone’s so busy juggling life, we sometimes forget our friends exist. But hey, they still have a VIP seat in my heart. The funny thing is, even if months fly by without a word, when we finally do catch up, it’s like nothing changed—same banter, same vibes. That’s the beauty of it—real friendships don’t care about time or distance.

But then there are those friends who just... disappear because they're "too busy." Like, okay, cool story, bro. They stop texting, meeting, or doing anything at all. Sure, it’s their choice, but let’s be real, friendship takes two people. If they can’t handle adulting in a friendship, that’s on them. Their loss, not mine!

You can’t force anyone to hang out with you, but checking in on your friends is always a good idea. A little reassurance in friendships goes a long way. Life’s way too short to take people for granted!

For everyone just stepping into adulthood like me and not dealing with this yet—enjoy the time with your friends while you can before life turns into one big to-do list. Trust me, it’s all fun and games until you're scheduling a hangout weeks in advance like you're trying to book a concert ticket.

Friendships need a little effort to survive the “busy” phase. So, don’t just wait for someone else to reach out—be the one to check in, send a meme, or just say hi. A small gesture can make someone’s day and keep the bond alive. Because in the end, it’s those little moments that matter most. So, laugh with your friends, make the time, and hold on to the ones who matter, before life turns into "I'll text you later" for months on end.

Thanks for sticking around! Just remember, adulting is like a group project—some people just disappear, but the real friends will always do the work to keep it together!

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